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Comment by Karen Foote on February 26, 2011 at 3:45pm Hello,
I gave a kidney to my older sister 12 years ago. I offered and did this in good faith that I was doing something to help someone. Now I realize I made a mistake.
After tens years of neglect on my sisters part the kidney started to fail. She was able to get another kidney from a neighbor and complained that the kidney I gave her only lasted ten years. We were told by the transplant doctors not to expect more than ten to twelve at the time of the surgery.
I was healthy at the time of the surgery, only eating the best foods, riding a bike up hills and hiking. My weight was normal for my height. My sister was overweight, very unhealthy diet and it only got worse after the surgery. She used the new kidney to do things that would have been destructive to her failing kidneys. Even the people at the transplant center told her now she could eat all the ice cream she wanted, and she did.
Meanwhile my health has gone downhill, even though I have continued with my healthy eating and exercise. I was never told by the transplant staff about and risks. They said I would go back to the way I was.My doctors now tell me "How could you? You only have one kidney."
I know the medical communtiy involved with transplants don't want potential donors to hear this. Sorry...I am now on 3 blood pressure meds,they say it is a result of having just one kidney. After my experience I would rather die before I would take a kidney from a living donor.
When I read the stats about all the people who die waiting I wish I would have saved my kidney for someone who could have appreciated it.
I have come to believe live donations should be limited only to those who make an effort to improve their health (eating habits etc.) and not be taking it for granted that they can just get another when they need one.
Why is this happening? I am truly upset that some recipients have no sense of the serious implications of receiving a
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